Be Invincible!
When We Were Invincible: Life Lessons from the ’80s that Defined a Generation isn’t just a book–it’s a time machine back to the decade that raised us. A nostalgic celebration for anyone who lived it.
For many of us–especially Gen X–the 1980s were more than just a decade. Growing up then felt like being part of a secret club. We were the Latchkey Kids, the Forgotten Generation. Mixtapes were our love language, and MTV, Arcades, and the mall were our sanctuaries.
When We Were Invincible dives deep into the family dynamics, friendships, cultural shifts, and iconic moments that shaped our youth. It uncovers the unexpected life lessons that molded us into the self-reliant, resilient, independent thinkers we are today–and shows how those lessons still apply now.
If you grew up in the ’80s, this book was written for you. It’s more than a trip down memory lane–it’s a reminder of what made us invincible.

Testimonials

"I met Becky on the 80s Cruise and read her book. Such a descriptive writer. She takes you right back to the ‘80s, all the movies, the TV shows, and especially the music; what kind of values we had, the technology (and social media) we had then as compared to now. Back then, we took a picture of us doing something stupid; nobody saw it, but two of our friends. Get this book. It really takes you back in time, it takes you back to your youth. Also, get it for your kids or someone who didn’t live through the ‘80s, because it’s a great descriptive book about what the '80s were like."

"This book is a must-read for any Gen Xer! Becky knocked it out of the park. I took my time with each chapter, completed the “After School Specials,” and loved the playlists—some songs I’d totally forgotten! The handwritten notes added the perfect nostalgic touch. It truly took me back and deepened my appreciation for our generation. This is one of those books that gives you more every time you read it. I can’t wait for Becky’s next book in The Invincible '80s series."

"This book is a full-on nostalgic joyride from start to finish. Becky Kliss captures the cultural heartbeat of Gen X with vivid stories, music, and moments that defined our youth. Her love for the '70s and '80s jumps off every page in relatable, heartfelt detail. She’s an ‘80s expert and reminds us what it meant to grow up tough, resourceful, and connected—even as we now juggle aging parents and retirement. A must-read for anyone who wants to understand what still makes Gen X invincible". Photo credit: Crystal Liepa.

"When We Were Invincible connects the life lessons we grew up with to making the most of our lives in today's modern world. It's a must-read for every Gen Xer or anyone navigating midlife with a love for '80s nostalgia and music."
The Author:
Becky Kliss
I’m just a small-town girl, livin’ in an ever-changing world. I took the midnight train to a lifelong love of all things Gen X, and I have an endless curiosity for culture, how it changes, and how it has changed us throughout the decades. Whether it is diving into communication styles, trends, social structures, societal issues, technology, or music (oh, yes, the music!), my love for the 80s goes beyond just nostalgia. I’m interested in what made Gen X (aka, “The Slackers,” “The Forgotten Generation,” “The Latchkey Kids”) into the resilient, self-starters we’ve become today….